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The family of Katie Meyer, a star soccer player who died by suicide last spring, has filed a wrongful death lawsuit against Stanford University and several administrators, accusing their actions of surrounding a possible disciplinary action. They “suffered an acute stress response that was impulsively induced.” his suicide.
Mayer, a senior who helped Stanford clinch the 2019 NCAA championship title, was found dead in her dorm room in March. Shortly before his death, Mayer was facing repercussions after defending a teammate on campus, his parents said in the days following his suicide.
The lawsuit alleges, “started with the death of Katie Meyer and ended with Stanford University,” and makes public for the first time the details of the allegations prompting potential disciplinary action.
In August 2021, Mayer was riding a bike when she allegedly spilled coffee on a football player who allegedly sexually assaulted one of his underage teammates, according to the lawsuit.
In response to that incident, Mayer received a formal charge sheet from Stanford’s Office of Community Standards, informing him of impending disciplinary action, the lawsuit states. According to the lawsuit, the letter was sent to him via email on the evening of his death and exactly six months after the spilled coffee incident.
In a statement, the Meyer family said, “We are deeply saddened and disappointed by what we have learned since her passing and have no choice but to move forward with litigation to achieve justice for Katie and protect future students.” Is.”
In a statement to CNN, Stanford University spokesman De Mostofi denied the lawsuit’s claims.
Mostofi wrote, “The Stanford community is mourning Katie’s tragic death and we join her family in sympathizing with the unimaginable pain Katie’s passing has caused.”
“However, we strongly disagree with any claim that the university is responsible for his death. While we have not yet seen the formal complaint brought by the Meyer family, we are aware of some of the allegations made in the filing, which are false and misleading,” Mostofi said.
According to the lawsuit, the letter contained “threatening language regarding sanctions and possible ‘expulsion from the University.'”
“The formal disciplinary charge sheet related to the spilled coffee also informed Katie that her diploma was being withheld only three (3) months shy of her graduation; jeopardizing his status as a Stanford student, captain and member of the soccer team, residential advisor, Mayfield Fellow, Defense Innovative Scholar, and his ability to attend Stanford Law School, among many other things.
After receiving the letter, Mayer immediately replied to the email, telling the university she was “shocked and distraught” at the action, the lawsuit claims.
“The Stanford staff failed to support Katie when she expressed feelings of hopelessness, she was ‘terrified that an accident would destroy my future,’ and she was ‘terrified for months that my clumsiness would cost Stanford would ruin my chances of leaving on a good note,’ and experiencing a lot of ‘anxiety’ related to the OCS process,” the lawsuit continues.
According to Mostofi, a university spokesman, the letter to Mayer “also included a number to call for immediate support and specifically stated that this resource was available to them 24 hours a day, seven days a week.”
“It is important to emphasize that we are committed to supporting students through the student judicial process under OCS, and we have done so in this case. In particular, the University has encouraged Katie to work with her throughout the process. offered a consultant to the OCS and told them that they can have a support person of their choice with them in any meeting or interaction with the OCS,” Mostofi said.
Noting that Mayer had no prior history of mental illness, the lawsuit details plans he made in the days leading up to his death, including purchasing plane tickets, planning a birthday party, and in general Includes attending class and football practice.
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